March 2026 // A List

1. March was a month. As always, it was an emotional month for me. There were good days and bad days. Exciting days and stressful days. Slow, quiet days. And days that felt like I was in a never-ending whirlwind.

2. The waves of grief arrived. It was a mix of sadness and anger. I thought about my baby brother a lot. Mami shared a photo of him with me. My heart broke for her, for Mike, for my siblings, for myself. I can't even begin to imagine how mothers have to cope and grieve the loss of a child. I thought a lot about what Mike would have been like at 28. 

3. March was a month full of appointments. So many emails. A mile-long to-do list. So many deadlines.

4. March was a somewhat slow month for reading. I didn't read as many books as I normally do, but the ones I did read were fantastic. I still can't stop thinking about We Burned So Bright by T.J. Klune.

5. Per usual, the return of Daylight Saving Time was and still is irritating. It took me weeks to get used to the time change, and I'm still shocked when I notice it's still bright outside at 7 PM.

6. Another annoyance, the return of the dreaded pollen. It finally arrived towards the middle/end of March. I guess March's parting gift for us all. It's really gotten Raphael this year. But on the bright side, it's supposed to rain for the next few days, so we're hoping it washes the pollen away.

7. I didn't really work much on crafty projects. I can't even blame it on a creative block. I just simply didn't have the energy to do it, even though I wanted to. March was truly an odd month.

8. I tried quite a few new treats. I especially loved trying the seasonal ones I found at Sprouts. I also received quite a few things from Influenster, and it was so much fun trying everything. 

9. Gabriel had a food-related project to work on at home, and it was so much fun cooking with him. He made latkes, and, thankfully, they were so easy to cook. It was also pretty tasty. I was surprised that latkes are sometimes served with applesauce. I may even make a batch again just to try it with applesauce.

10. The boys have been doing so well at school, and I am incredibly proud of them. I can't believe the school year is almost over. It's that time of year in high school when teachers are talking about college and life after graduation... and it's made me emotional. 

11. I found a new-to-me favorite snack. I've been devouring Sprouts' Organic Mini Milk Chocolate Brown Rice Cakes. They are so good and healthier than the other snacks I normally buy. I've packed a bag in my lunch bag a couple of times for work, and I also have a small stash at home. 

12. I made mini ground beef cheeseburger sliders, and they turned out delicious. They were so easy to make and very filling. I'm really hoping to try more recipes. 

13. I watched 10x10, and it was an insane movie. I rarely watch movies and TV shows, but I would like to catch up on quite a few. I think I'm going to make Fridays or Saturdays days when I take an hour or so to watch a show. 

13. I made a couple of decisions regarding my career path, and I'm feeling hopeful. I think 2026 is going to be a big career year for me. I've definitely been working a lot more on trying to get to where I want to be in my career. I've been doing a lot of research and coming up with different plans.

14. I only realized just a few days ago that Easter is so close. I'm not sure why I thought Easter was in mid-April. Of course, I have yet to shop for Easter goodies for the boys, but I will definitely do that in the next few days. 

15. I visited a few of my favorite local small businesses and loved supporting them. I especially loved celebrating the one-year anniversary of Sincerely Yours Bookstore's grand opening.

16. As the month comes to an end, I feel a bit relieved. March was a bit of an overwhelming month. There was just too much going on. And even though there were lots of good days, there were just too many things to do. I'm grateful for the lessons I learned this month, and I think it's wonderful that although April starts in the middle of the week, Spring Break begins at the end of this week. And for that I am grateful.

17. Goodbye, March. I think it was important that I experienced all that I did. A lot of things are starting to come together, and I know it has to be part of my journey. Hello, April. I hope you are a dream. I have such high hopes for you. Here's to calmer, peaceful, and less stressful days. 

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Saturday! This was a bit of a busy week, and I'm glad the weekend is finally here. We're all dealing with allergies, so we're planning to stay in this weekend. We'll probably play some video games, maybe a board game or two, watch a movie or TV show, and of course, read a book. I plan to catch up on some Substack newsletters and start reading a new book.

1. This tree diagram and other sketches by Morgan Harper Nichols were really inspiring.

2. I finally found POM teas, and they are so good! I especially love the Pomegranate Elderberry Boost Tea.

3. Harrison Ford's Life Achievement Award Acceptance Speech had me in tears. This was one of the best speeches ever. Harrison Ford is an absolute legend.

4. A song on repeat: Brother by Kodaline

5. Aubrey Hirsch wrote and drew this fantastic piece about ChatGPT Dads, and it was an interesting read.

6. "Little did I know having a girl helped me become a man." These words by Lavonte David made me tear up. 

7. Currently Reading: Brawler: Stories by Lauren Groff

8. On the wishlist: It's spring, and I'm in my floral era. I read about a woman, Rachel Weisel, who makes her own bouquets using Trader Joe's flowers. Now I'm interested in taking her Supermarket Flowers 101 class.

9. I found a Terry's Milk Chocolate Snowball (yes, it was still good) in my candy bowl, and I was so excited (I may or may not have let out an excited squeal). In fact, I'm currently eating a piece as I type this.

10. This upcoming week is the final week before spring break, and I'm so excited. 

What made you happy this week?

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Until next time... 

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Spring 2026 Bucket List

Happy Friday and First Day of Spring! I absolutely love that the first day of spring is on a Friday! I'm so glad the weather felt very springlike because just a few days ago, it seemed like winter was going to stay a bit longer. The weather definitely gave me (and I'm sure many other people) whiplash. 

This spring, I'm looking forward to the return of my local farmers' market, tulips, warmer weather, and walks along the Silver Comet Trail. I'm also looking forward to trying more seasonal foods, drinks, and treats.

Since it's a new season, you know I had to share my seasonal bucket list, which is a seasonal tradition and ritual I absolutely love. Many of the items on the list have appeared in previous spring bucket lists, but a few are new. Check it out below.

• Read 8 books

• Try 2 new recipes

• Submit a piece to an online publication

• Make homemade strawberry Pop-Tarts

• Participate in at least one Exhale blog hop

• Complete 1 unfinished creative project 

• Try a new art technique

• Work in my sketchbook/journal

• Participate in a book challenge

• Visit a new-to-me coffee shop

• Go for a family walk every week

• Visit a new-to-me restaurant

• Have a picnic

• Publish a photo essay

• Make a zine

• Watch 2 new (or new-to-me) movies

• Go to the farmer's market at least twice a month

• Make Same-Day Peasant Bread

• Make my own floral bouquet

• Have a movie and board game night

• Dye Easter eggs

• Go for a daily walk

• Buy fresh flowers every week

• Declutter and donate old toys and clothes

• Switch my perfume to a spring fragrance

• Make homemade syrups for teas and lemonade

• Go thrifting

• Visit a museum

• Visit the botanical gardens

• Document our spring adventures

• Continue to work on my 100 Days Project

What's on your Spring bucket list?

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Just Four Things

1. Have you watched the psychological thriller film, 10x10, starring Luke Evans and Kelly Reilly? This was such an insane movie. The film is about a man named Lewis who kidnaps a woman named Cathy. He takes her to a soundproof 10x10 room. As the film progresses, you start to understand Lewis' actions.

2. I recently had the opportunity to read an advance copy of We Burned So Bright by TJ Klune and absolutely loved it! We Burned So Bright is about an older couple, husbands Don and Rodney, who go on an end-of-the-world road trip. They are racing against time from a black hole headed towards Earth, which will cause the world to end. Along the way, they meet various people on their own journeys. Some are in denial, and others have accepted what is coming. Don and Rodney reflect on their lives while also desperately hoping to fulfill their last promise. This was such a beautiful, powerful, breathtaking, and unforgettable read. It's not often that a book leaves me speechless and thinking about it days after finishing the book. The last chapter of the book had me in tears. Do yourself a favor and read this book. 10/10 highly recommend.

*Thank you, NetGalley, for providing an arc in exchange for an honest review.*

3. I recently discovered Clean Skin Club Sensitive Skin Towels (I bought the Sensitive pack and the Luxe Bamboo Box set) in February and have been using these single-use face towels for about a month. I love that you can pair them with a cleanser or makeup remover. Or you can simply use them to dry your face. They are also great for drying your counter. I've been using them to dry my face after cleansing. I haven't tried it with my makeup remover (I don't often wear makeup), so I'll try to remember to update you on how it works with makeup remover when I do. Also, I'd like to note that I still have some conflicted feelings about single-use face towels, particularly regarding wastefulness and the environment. However, I'm happy with my purchase so far.

4. I'm always on the hunt for healthier snacks, and while on a random trip at Sprouts, I found some mini milk chocolate rice cakes. And oh my goodness, these are so delicious! I've tried other rice cakes, but never found one I liked, so I was actually surprised when I picked up a bag of these. Honestly, this was an impulse buy, and I was hungry (don't ever go to the grocery store hungry), but I'm so glad I decided to give these a try. They are so delicious, and I have added them to my grocery list.

What have you been up to?

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Saturday! This week felt so long, especially with the start of Daylight Saving Time. I always struggle with the time change. Even my usual one cup of coffee a day didn't seem to help. I was especially happy once it was Friday. This weekend, I'm hoping to go to our local St. Patrick's Day festival or go for a walk near the market village. 

1. My order of Carolyn Yoo's Spring Practice booklet zine arrived, and I can't wait to use the journal prompts and patterned papers.

2. I made a homemade sports drink, and it was pretty good. I used this recipe.

3. I used my Super Cash from Old Navy to buy the boys a few things, and I also bought some new, pretty swing dresses (I bought one in every color). I was especially happy to have saved a lot of money. 

4. This post by Rani Ban.

5. A song on repeat: To Be Loved by Askjell feat. AURORA. 

6. Finished Reading: We Burned So Bright by TJ Klune. This was a fantastic book. Klune's storytelling is perfection. A full review will come soon.

7. I finally got my hair done after having to postpone my appointment due to the weather. It was so nice to have a few hours of me time and get that done as well as my eyebrows. I also managed to get a few errands done quickly. This Saturday was perfection.

8. Another song on repeat: Welcome Home by Radical Face

9. Amy Turn Sharp's letters and memories to her deceased friends and family. I often find myself thinking about life and death during this time of year. Reading that post made me want to make one for my family members, friends, and acquaintances who are no longer here.

10. Late afternoon/early evening walks have been such a joy. I plan to go on a few more this weekend with John and the boys.

What made you happy this week?

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Until next time... 

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If You And I Had Coffee

If you and I had coffee...

We'd meet at one of our favorite woman-owned local coffee shops. I'd probably have a hard time deciding which drink to get because we're in that strange seasonal transition time. I'm still craving the winter seasonal treats, but also wanting the spring seasonal flavors. Maybe I'll order a winter seasonal treat to enjoy at the coffee shop, then a spring seasonal treat to go.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that Daylight Saving Time is and always will be annoying. I'm still struggling with the time change and probably will for the next few weeks. It seems so odd that the mornings are so dark. I just checked my weather app, and it says today's sunset is at 7:42 PM... and tomorrow's sunrise will be at 7:53 AM! 

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I just finished reading one of the most amazing books I've ever read. I actually finished it about a week ago and can't stop talking about it. I was so lucky to get an eARC of T.J. Klune's upcoming novel, We Burned So Bright, from NetGalley. This was a beautiful and powerful read. I actually cried at the end, and it takes a lot for a story to make me cry. T.J. Klune is a fantastic storyteller. We Burned So Bright is probably going to be on my list of 12 favorite books of 2026. In fact, it's probably going to be a top contender for my number one favorite book of 2026. 

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I'm looking forward to the weekend. I'm hoping to go to the Marietta Square Artisan Market and the St. Patrick's Day Festival. It's been cloudy and at times rainy this week, so fingers crossed that the weekend has clear skies and warm(ish) weather.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you I've been going on more walks, and it's been such a comfort. It's been a great way to decompress after work and chores at home. One positive thing about the time change is that there's still daylight during my walks, even at 7 PM!

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that the countdown has begun for the end of the school year. I'm still shocked that it's March and by the end of this week, we'll be halfway through the month! I can't wait for spring break next month. We don't have any plans yet, aside from our usual spring break traditions, but I'm so excited. I also plan to get some spring cleaning done soon. 

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I'm so glad we were able to catch up. As always, these coffee chats are one of the highlights of my month. Next time we meet, it'll officially be spring, and I'm so excited. I hope you continue to enjoy the rest of the month and the rest of winter. See you next month!

What would you tell me?

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March 2026 Goals

Happy Wednesday! Another month has passed, and for being the shortest month of the year, February felt like it lasted forever. February was absolutely nonstop, and I'm happy that it's March. 

February started off rough. My eye was injured while I was cooking (I'm fine now), but it was a bit scary. Thankfully, my doctor is great, and the medicine I was prescribed really helped. We had a low-key Valentine's Day. I loved the gifts and treats John and the boys gave me. I was (and still am) in my floral-and-candle era. I lit a candle every day in February. I was especially excited for tulips and was so happy to get a bunch on Valentine's Day. We had winter break in February. I planned to do nothing and get as much rest as possible...I did, but unfortunately, I also got a really bad cold. I'm feeling much better now. I went for a few winter walks, which really helped my mood and made me even more excited for spring. I also went to the grand opening of my local Paris Baguette and visited a new-to-me pie shop, Southern Baked Pie Company. We closed out the month by getting new flooring after a leak in the downstairs area of our home damaged our carpet. I'm so happy with how the hardwood flooring looks in our home. 

This month, I'm hoping for a quieter month. As you may remember, March is usually an emotional month for me as it's the birth and death anniversary of my baby brother. This month, I'm going to give myself grace and prioritize and protect my peace. I am welcoming all the feelings that come with grieving.

Since it's a new month, it's time for a quick recap of last month's goals and a look at my goals for March.

Recap of February Goals

• Read 1 book I borrowed from the library: I read Held by Anne Michaels. This was one of Exhale's book club picks. I enjoyed the book, but I definitely think I need to reread it. Raphael and I also read quite a few books together. We read I Hear the Snow, I Smell the Sea by Janice Milusich, Penguinaut! by Marcie Colleen, There's a Giraffe in My Soup by Ross Burach, and Nunu and the Sea by Isabella Kung.

• Read 1 book I received from NetGalley: I read so many good books I received from NetGalley. I read Snow Bound by Hannah Murray, Night Owl: Poems by Aimee Nezhukumatathil, Begin Again, and Again, and Again by Alessandra Olanow, A Year Without Home by V.T. Bidania, and the Now I See series by Mac Barnett, Someday This Will Be A Funny Story by Nora Ephron, and Is This a Cry for Help? by Emily R. Austin. I especially loved Alessandra Olanow and Emily R. Austin's books. I plan on buying a physical copy of Olanow's book. 

• Make 1 scrapbook/Project Life layout: I did work in my Project Life album, but I still have lots of layouts to complete. I have a bunch of January photos printed, so I only need to add journaling to those pages. As for February, I need to order pictures from that month, but I did start working on those layouts as well.

• Work in my sketchbook/journal: I did work in my sketchbook, but not as much as I'd like. February was such a chaotic and insane month. I'm really hoping to have more time in March to play in my sketchbook.

• Try 1 new recipe: I don't remember if I tried a new recipe, so I'm assuming I didn't. 

March Goals

• Read 1 book I borrowed from the library
• Read 3 books I received from NetGalley
• Make 2 scrapbook/Project Life layouts
• Work in my sketchbook/journal
• Try 2 new recipes

What are your goals for March? How did you do in February?

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Until next time...

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February 2026 // A List

1. My goodness, February was certainly a month. In January, I had high hopes for February, and although the month was great for the most part, there were some really rough days sprinkled throughout. For being the shortest month of the year, February certainly felt like the longest at times.

2. The beginning of February was honestly not so great. My eye was injured while I was cooking, and I ended up having to see my optometrist after hours. I'm so grateful that my doctor offers after-hours emergency visits because I would have had to go to urgent care or the ER. Thankfully, everything is ok now, and the medicine and some much-needed rest helped.

3. I rarely watch the Super Bowl, but I was so excited for the Benito Bowl. Bad Bunny's performance was truly a love letter to everyday people.

4. I loved seeing the Black History Month displays throughout my job. We even had playlists that were made by employees, and we listened to the songs throughout the day.

5. Valentine's Day was very low-key, and I loved it. John and the boys gave me such sweet gifts. 

6. I read so many great books in February. Some of my favorites: Begin Again, and Again, and Again by Alessandra Olanow, A Year Without Home by V.T. Bidania, and Is This A Cry for Help? by Emily R. Austin. I will definitely be purchasing a physical copy of Alessandra Olanow's book, and I am so grateful to have received an eARC from NetGalley.

7. I was in my candle and tulip era. I lit a candle every single day and enjoyed walking into the dining room to see my tulips still thriving. 

8. Winter Break was not at all what I was expecting. I was expecting to get lots of rest, and I did, but I was not expecting to be sick with a terrible cold. It was really bad, and I ended up having to see the doctor because nothing I did to get better worked. 

9. I was so grateful for Mami because while I was sick, she made me a huge batch of her homemade soup. It was such a comfort, and I was hit with a wave of nostalgia. 

10. After I started to feel better, I went on several walks throughout the week. Those three-mile walks were everything and helped make me feel even better.

11. Another really low point of the month was that we had a big leak in our living room, dining room, and kitchen. Thankfully, it was fixed, but we had to replace our carpet. Even though we wanted to get new flooring, we just weren't expecting to have this issue and having to change everything so quickly. Anyway, the new hardwood flooring was installed, and I really love it. 

12. February was a month for trying new things. I went to the grand opening of a new-to-me bakery called Paris Baguette. I was impressed with the bakery and its treats. I plan to visit that bakery in the next week or so. 10/10 highly recommend their cheesecake. So good!

13. My little sister came to town, and I was able to see my nephew and niece. They have gotten so big. Mami was delighted to have all the kids together and spend time with them.

14. The state of the country and the world is still a bit frightening. Every single day, something happens. And it's just exhausting. I don't want to look at the news anymore, and I'm considering muting some news sources. It would probably also help that it's not the first thing I see when I open my phone in the morning, after starting my day.

14. February's ending was a bit of a mad dash. Since we were getting the flooring put down on the last two days of the month, it really pushed back a lot of stuff I was supposed to do during the week. Thankfully, I was able to get everything done and cross everything off my to-do list. 

15. February was a whirlwind of a month that just did not stop. However, it was a very eye-opening month, and I'm grateful for all the lessons I learned. 

16. Goodbye February. You were a chaotic month, keeping me on my toes. Hello March. I'm nervous, but cautiously optimistic. Here's to welcoming new beginnings, protecting our peace, and finding joy in the little things. 

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Sunday! It's been two weeks since my last happy and grateful list post. Last week, I didn't get to share my weekly list because it was pretty busy. I was hoping to post it over the weekend, but unfortunately, I came down with an awful cold... and I was still battling it. For the past week, I've been resting in bed and have consumed so many bowls of soup, popsicles, and water. I'm only just now starting to really feel better.

1. We had a low-key Valentine's Day, and it was wonderful. John and the boys gifted me beautiful tulips, treats, and a candle I've had my eye on for a while.

2. I saw the first jonquils this week in my city, and it made my heart happy. Spring is almost here. The pink tulips on my dining room table are still alive, and they bring me such joy when I walk into our dining room.

3. Despite being sick, this winter break did have some productive moments. I did some more research related to my career goals and feel so much better. I also got some major things on my to-do list done.

4. A song on repeat: Black Clouds by Andrew Belle

5. A random fact I just learned: Katherine Applegate wrote the Animorphs series with her husband. I have no idea how I didn't know this. I remember reading that series when I was a kid. 

6. On the wishlist: Swig Life's Loopi Tote Bag. I love the Busy Bee design, and it would be perfect for all my trips to the farmers' market. I also love the Funky Chicken and Teacher/Educator designs. 

7. I'm so grateful for modern healthcare. The medicine I was prescribed has been helping a lot, and I'm starting to feel better.

8. After checking a couple of emails on Friday morning and running a quick errand, I went for a three-mile walk, and it was the perfect workout. The weather was fantastic, and it was so great to finally feel well enough to go for a long walk and be outdoors.

9. We will be getting new flooring downstairs, and I'm really excited. I'm not looking forward to clearing the entire downstairs of our home, but I can't wait to see the end result. 

10. I've been really into various versions of still life. Sarah van Dongen shared some wonderful still-life sketches and pieces from her sketchbook, which really inspired me. I love that she used collage for her work. 

What made you happy this week?

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Until next time... 

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The Impromptu Trip of 2021

It was early June 2021. The last day of school ended just the week prior, and summer break was officially in full force. We didn't really have any plans for the summer...at least not to go out of town. For the most part, we planned to follow our usual summer routine. Go to the pool, visit some new-to-us parks, go to some local festivals, eat copious amounts of ice cream, and watch some movies here and there. But we hadn't made any plans to go on a trip, not even a staycation. 

One afternoon, John let me know that his work schedule had changed and that he would be able to take some vacation days earlier than we anticipated, in addition to his scheduled days off. We wondered what to do since the boys weren't in school, I was still a stay-at-home mom and wife at the time, and now he had some extra days off from work. 

I had been dreaming of going on a vacation for months at that point, and it seems like John had the same idea because he said, "What do you think about going to the mountains?"

He saw the hesitation on my face. I'm a planner, especially when it comes to trips. I like to plan trips well in advance, even if it's only a couple of hours away. There's just too much to do, especially with three small children. We have to pack clothes, shoes, toiletries, electronics (chargers, etc.), and snacks. So many things. So many lists to go over. The thought of making a last-minute trip made me anxious.

"We don't have to go," John says. "We can still do a lot of stuff here."

"I'll think about it," I said.

Later that afternoon, or maybe early evening, I grabbed my laptop and began looking up events in the mountains and places to stay. I had been dying to finally visit Helen, Georgia, for a while now. It looked like the perfect place to go for the summer and escape the heat for a few days. While the boys were playing, John came upstairs and saw that I was looking up cabins and Airbnbs. I smiled at him.

"What do you think? A cabin or a hotel room?" I asked.

"Cabin!", we both said at the same time.

"If we're going to the mountains, we might as well go for the cabin. Make it somewhat authentic," I said.

"Authentic would be more of a tent," John said.

"Um, no. We are not sleeping in a tent," I laughed.

That evening, we booked the cabin for a few days. The kicker: the first available day they had for the cabin, for the number of days we planned to stay, was the next day. It was either book that night and leave tomorrow for Helen, or we wouldn't be able to go at all. Cue the stress of packing late into the night. After packing and double-checking everything, we were as ready as we could be.

The next morning, after we all had breakfast, packed everything into our car, and locked up, I called Mami right as we were about to head out.

"Mami, if you try to get in touch with me and I don't answer...don't panic. We are ok. We're going to be out of town for a few days," I said.

"What?" she asked, surprised.

"We're going to the mountains, so we may not have the best cell reception, especially when we go out on the trails and in the parks," I said.

"When did you plan this?" she asked.

"It was a last-minute trip," I answered.

"You never make last-minute trips," she replied, still surprised. 

"I know," I smiled. 

"Ok. Well, have fun and be safe. Let me know when you guys get there," she says.

The trip was amazing, and we had a blast. It was fun to go off script and not have an itinerary on our trip. We simply went where we wanted to go and experienced a new place without a schedule. To this day, Helen is still one of my favorite places to visit.

That impromptu trip really taught me a lot. It made me realize that it's ok to just wing it sometimes. I don't need to have a rigid plan for everything. It's ok to step out of my comfort zone. Honestly, being able to surprise the boys with this random trip to the mountains was probably the highlight of the trip. Have I detoured from my routine and gone off script since then? Yes, and honestly, it's been worth it. The initial hit of anxiety and stress quickly moves away when I think of all the possible memories we can make. It makes me think of my siblings, who are always carefree and all about spontaneity. Although I wouldn't say I will always be spontaneous, I admit I am now more confident about going off script and letting loose. We only have one life to live, and as the kids say, "YOLO" (or do they not say that anymore?). Here's to embracing more unscripted days. 

This post is part of a blog hop with Exhale —an online community of women pursuing creativity alongside motherhood led by the writing team behind Coffee + Crumbs. Click here to view the next post in the series "Unscripted".

If You And I Had Coffee

If you and I had coffee...

We'd have to meet via Zoom or something similar, unfortunately, because I'm feeling under the weather. I have an incredibly awful cold and have been stuck at home for days now. I'd be in my pajamas, with something warm to drink (possibly some terrible tea and a delicious coffee) and a massive bottle of water on the side. No pastries this time, but there will be a big bowl of chicken noodle soup.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you this isn't how I expected my winter break to turn out. I fully expected to have some rest and relaxation...just minus the sickness. I did go to the doctor and now have a couple of prescriptions to help me get better. I've gotten plenty of rest and have read quite a few books.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you another unexpected thing that's happened during our winter break is that we will have to get new flooring throughout the downstairs. We have had a few leaks get on our carpet, and honestly, it's just time to get new flooring. I'm both excited and a bit anxious. We are going to get vinyl flooring instead of carpet. John and I are so excited, especially John, as he's been wanting to change the flooring for a while now. It's going to be annoying to move everything out of downstairs, but it's going to be worth it.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you, although I'm under the weather, it's been a productive week. I am still working on the next steps for my career and have even considered pursuing a master's degree. There are a couple of programs I'm interested in, but I'm definitely going to take some time to do thorough research before I decide. However, I will say I'm so excited because I feel like I'm really getting close to making a decision.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you I'm dreaming of spring. I really can't wait for farmers' market season. I'm already looking forward to spring break. I'm also looking forward to March and am hoping for a calmer month. February has been full of unexpected events, and I'm hoping to get back to a regular routine.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I'm glad we were able to catch up again. I thought we wouldn't be able to catch up due to how busy this month has been. I also just realized that next week is the last week of February, which is wild to me. This month has truly felt like it's flown by. Here's to good health and peaceful days. I hope you enjoy the rest of February. See you next month!

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Just Five Things

 

1. I recently finished reading A Year Without Home by V.T. Bidania and loved it. This is a children's novel in verse about an eleven-year-old girl named Gao Sheng who lives in Laos. When the communist government takes over after American troops pull out from the Vietnam War, the government begins to search for American allies. One of those allies is Gao's father. Gao's family is forced to flee their home and homeland to survive. It was amazing to see how Gao copes with these changes and how she navigates the expectations placed on her.

2. This is the last week before winter break, and I'm so excited. I love that this Friday is Friday the 13th. I plan to watch a scary movie or two. Maybe even watch a spooky series. We'll have a low-key Valentine's Day, and I'll probably try to bake something. I'm really looking forward to working on my Project Life album and playing in my sketchbook. I might also go to the movies and watch Dracula. Of course, I plan to do a lot of resting and relaxing. 

3. I had no idea who was playing at the Super Bowl until just a few hours before the game. I was incredibly excited for Bad Bunny's performance, and the show did not disappoint. I was hit with a massive wave of nostalgia. The highlights and various scenes of moments were incredible. Bad Bunny truly highlighted the everyday Latino life. The performance made me wish I were back in New York. It made me think about my childhood. The scenes of family gatherings, the celebrations, the bodega, the culture...all the little Easter eggs sprinkled throughout the performance were everything. Bad Bunny's performance was truly a love letter. 

4. I went down a rabbit hole after reading a post on social media about the Tarim mummies. It was interesting to read about how people in that time might have lived. The way the mummies were buried was also interesting. I was surprised to learn that the coffins were shaped like boats. One of the mummies even appeared to have undergone surgery. His abdomen was stitched with sutures made of horsehair. 

5. I'm excited for spring. I love that stores are starting to sell their new spring collections. I think I may want to buy a new dining set for spring. Maybe something colorful that can also be used during summer. Of course, I'm looking forward to all the spring seasonal treats as well. I'm looking forward to buying the first bag of Cadbury eggs for the season.

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Saturday! This week was an eventful one. Only one unexpected thing happened, which was absolutely not fun (see #3 on the list), but thankfully everything is ok. This work also went by quickly. This weekend, I plan to get a couple of errands done and watch Bad Bunny's halftime show performance. I also plan to start a new book or two. I can't wait.

1. When the world feels heavy and is a bit too loud, the venerable monks and their walk for peace continue to restore my hope in humanity. 

2. Ryan Goff's beautiful short about winter

3. My optometrist. I had to see my doctor after hours, after injuring my eye (don't worry, I'm fine) while trying to prep and cook some shrimp. While panicking and sobbing, I called my optometrist and left a voicemail. John and I were going to head to the urgent care, but my optometrist called just minutes after I left the voicemail, saying he could meet us at the office. Long story short, I got my eye flushed, examined, and was prescribed some medicine. My eye looked significantly better the next day, and now it's basically fine. I'm so grateful for our insurance, and most importantly, our doctor(s). 

4. Finished reading: Is This a Cry for Help? by Emily R. Austin. This was such a great book! The story follows Darcy, a librarian, who returns to work after suffering from a mental health crisis upon learning about the death of her ex, Ben. After returning to work, Darcy must navigate protests about censorship and book bans. The story also touches on Darcy's struggle with her sexuality and her family life. 

*Thank you to NetGalley for providing an arc in exchange for an honest review.*

5. A song on repeat: SHYNE by Travis Scott feat. GloRilla

6. I was so excited when I found out RYZE has mocha coffee latte sticks in stores. I tried it this week, and it's so good. John even loves it too. I do wish that it came in a bigger box or maybe in a bag, but I can see that this flavor is going to be one of our long-time favorites. I also bought the caramel coffee latte sticks, but haven't tried them yet. If you're interested in trying RYZE, use my code THEEMITIMES15, and get 15% off your next order by clicking here.

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7. It's still really cold, but at least it's not below freezing. I'm also happy it's supposed to be even warmer next week (lows in the 40s, highs in the mid-50s and 60s). 

8. Nina Cosford's sketchbook snippets are so cool. 

9. I bought the boys' and John's Valentine's Day gifts. We also got Raphael's teachers a little gift and his classmates some Valentine's Day cards and treats. John and I tend to be really low-key on Valentine's Day, but we'll still get each other a gift. I think I'm going to bake a Valentine's Day treat as well. Honestly, I love that Valentine's Day is on a Saturday. 

10. This upcoming week is the week before our winter break starts, and I'm so excited to have a week off. I plan to work on lots of crafty projects and catch up on some shows. I'm also hoping to get in a few winter walks. 

What made you happy this week?

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February 2026 Goals

Happy Wednesday! Can you believe we're already a few days into February? Per usual, January felt like the longest yet shortest month ever. The first few days of January, leading up to my birthday, were amazing. I spent those days preparing for the month and the new year. Of course, I also spent those days celebrating my birthday, since it fell on a weekday. 

In January, John and I went on a date and tried Roxy's for the first time. The food was pretty great, and we plan to go back soon. We also wandered around the Marietta Square and explored some shops. I got some new art supplies, a gorgeous vase, a new mug, and a few fun other things as gifts. John and I also went to First Watch and ordered some of their seasonal menu items. Their B.E.C. was delicious! 10/10 highly recommend. I also had jury duty for the first time, and it was interesting. I know a lot of people usually get annoyed when they have to report for jury duty. I was annoyed at first, but quickly changed my mind. Raphael and I played Mario Kart, and it was so much fun. We also had some winter weather that forced schools and workplaces to shut down. It was so nice to rest at home. Unfortunately, we didn't get snow, but we definitely got some on the first day of February.

This month, I'm looking forward to a slower(ish) month. I'm looking forward to celebrating Valentine's Day. I'm especially looking forward to winter break. I'm hoping to catch up on a couple of shows and (maybe) watch a movie.

Recap of January 2026 Goals

• Read 2 books I borrowed from the library: Raphael and I have been on a Jory John kick and enjoyed reading several of his books in the The Food Group series. We still have a few more books from the series to read, and I plan to place a few more holds soon.

• Read 1 book I received from NetGalley: I read How to Be Okay When Nothing Is Okay by Jenny Lawson. This was a really great read. This book read like a mix of self-help and memoir, which I loved. It was interesting to read Jenny Lawson's take on anxiety, depression, and ADHD.

• Participate in Exhale's January blog hop: I didn't participate in the actual blog hop, but I did make a piece using the prompt after the blog hop's date. You can check out my piece here.

• Make 1 scrapbook/Project Life layout: I worked in my Project Life album, but didn't complete the layouts. I am waiting for my photos to arrive, but I have already worked out the placement for my cards and photos. Next, I plan to work on the journaling.

• Work in my sketchbook/journal: I haven't worked in my sketchbook. January was extremely busy, and I did a lot more organizing of craft and art supplies. I do know which sketchbook I plan to use, so I'm really hoping that this creative block is finally gone for good. I just need to set aside some time to play with my art supplies.

• Drink more water: I've been drinking a lot more water, and even more so once I was under the weather. I hope to continue to keep this good habit.

February Goals

• Read 1 book I borrowed from the library
• Read 1 book I received from NetGalley
• Make 1 scrapbook/Project Life layout
• Work in my sketchbook/journal
• Try 1 new recipe

What are your goals for February? How did you do in January?

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January 2026 // A List

1. Whoo! January, my goodness, was a month. January is a special month because it's my birthday month. The month started off great with the arrival of the New Year and then my birthday just a few days later. I dreaded thinking about January 6 and hoped the rest of the month would go well.

2. As always, I spent the entire month celebrating my birthday. Nothing extravagant, but I tried to do something small almost every day. A pick-me-up treat on a random Tuesday, lighting candles, redeeming birthday rewards throughout the month, and getting a few new art supplies.

3. Some good things this month: My birthday, jury duty (yes, I know), a day off work due to the weather, so many great books, especially Lily Archer's new book Gold Flame: Dragons of Oblivion, colorful roses in my new vase, I got some new Brooks sneakers and they are amazing, treats from Crumbl, a rare trip to Blick Art and Trader Joe's, a day date with John, playing Mario Kart with Raphael, watching His & Hers (so good!), all the soups, lots of resting and relaxing, and ending the month with snow!

4. Although I experienced so many good things this month, my heart once again broke for so many people and the country. I just can't believe that we still have to protest the same things over and over. I don't understand how some people seem to have lost their humanity. 

5. Although the country's current events are horrifying, I still have hope. It was great seeing groups of students protesting peacefully and making their voices heard. It was also great to see so many of my favorite artists and documentarians create powerful works of art during this time.

6. I've been thinking about my one little word for the year, and I am hopeful. I love that I've been reminded of my word throughout the month and even more so towards the end of January.

7. January was such a strange month. It went by fast, but also felt like the longest month. In fact, there were days when it felt like I lived a lifetime in January. So many things happened during January. There were definitely some unexpected events. We all got a little sick during the month. I, myself, am currently battling a cold as I type this. 

8. As this month ends, I hope that February is a gentler and calmer month. I'm hoping it's a more creative month. May it be a month of feeling at ease.

9. Goodbye January. Thank you for all the lessons I learned and am still learning. Hello February. I have such high hopes for you (no pressure). Here's to good days, good health, good vibes. Here's to the journey ahead. I'm as ready as can be. Onward.

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Friday! It's been a week. We had no school or work on Monday because of the winter storm, so it was nice to have an extra day to rest and relax. I'm currently under the weather and am looking forward to resting this weekend. There's another winter storm on the way, so we'll be at home this weekend.  I'm hoping for some snow this time. I plan to read a book or two and drink so much hot chocolate. Either way, I plan on staying cozy this weekend. 

1. I picked up a few books I had on hold at the library and can't wait to dive into them. What are you currently reading?

2. I've been devouring soup this week. One of my favorite soups is chicken tortilla soup, and I ended up ordering some from Newk's. 

3. Vanessa's Fem Quotes journal

4. A song on repeat: EoO by Bad Bunny

5. I saw a group of students peacefully protesting the funding of ICE and the administration, and I was happy to see them using their voices to be heard. I hope everyone who is currently protesting remains safe. 

6. One of the cutest things I've seen this week.

7. Letter #22: To Frida Kahlo from Jane R. Shore. A fantastic read, and the artwork is so cool.

8. Sharing funny memes and videos with my little sister.

9. Valentine's Day chocolate. The Ghiradelli Crème Brûlée hearts chocolates are absolutely delicious.

10. It's finally Friday, and January is almost over. 

What made you happy this week?

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2026 Anticipations

The anticipation of...

The first snow / ice storm of the season / complaining of the cold while dreaming of warmer weather / the first winter walk on the Silver Comet Trail / finally attempting to make homemade bread / putting fresh flowers in my new vase / wintering and embracing the stillness of winter / cuddling with my kids / winter break / weekly happy and grateful lists / board games with my kids and husband / date nights with my love / more light / the subtle signs of spring's impending arrival / seeing the first bouquets of tulips at the grocery store / farmers market season / perhaps a trip to the mountains or a trip to Savannah / more adventures with my family / taking refresher courses related to my degree / making a decision regarding graduate school / new career goals and making some changes / more writing / more creating / more documenting / spring break / lighting seasonal scented candles / especially an ocean or water scented candle / hiking at Kennesaw Mountain / summer break / welcoming and embracing the summer solstice / baking a strawberry pie / s'mores / the first sip of Morir Soñando / complaining of summer's heat while dreaming of cooler weather / the new school year / Fall and all of its wonders / Halloween and spooky season / buying new Halloween costumes/the first cup of apple cider / going to a pumpkin patch / wishing Fall would never end / October through December / holiday season / buying a new holiday ornament / making all the lists / looking back at 2026 / being grateful for another year.

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Sunday! This has been a week. A super short work week, my youngest was feeling under the weather, the actual weather has been insane, and we are currently staying cozy and warm while hunkering down from this ice storm.  

1. Grocery store roses. They are so colorful and gorgeous. I loved putting them in my new favorite vase.

2. This wonderful and much-needed reminder. 

3. Crawfish Pepperjack Soup from Newk's. Perfect on a cold winter day.

4. A song on repeat: Messy by Lola Young

5. Currently reading: Accidentally Yours by Christina Lauren

6. This funny Winter Storm Fern weather report

7. I bought a pair of Brooks Anthem 7 Running Shoes and absolutely love them. They are so comfortable, and I love the neutral color. This is my first purchase from this brand, and I'm planning to get a second pair soon.

8. On the wishlist: A subscription to Uppercase Magazine

9. Easy Activism for Heavy Hearts. Yes to all of this.

10. School and work have been canceled for Monday. We're so excited to stay home. It'll be nice to get some extra rest after such a hectic week.

What made you happy this week?

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Just Five Things

1. I'm currently reading Held by Anne Michaels, and so far I'm enjoying it. This book is Exhale's book club pick for the month. The narrative spans multiple generations, from 1917, during World War I, to 2025. The story begins with a soldier named John who lies on a battlefield after being injured and unable to move or feel his legs. I really like the book's formatting and style. Although I like the formatting and style, I'm slowly reading this book in small doses, as I've found I really need to pay close attention.  This is not a book I normally would have selected to read, and I don't often read historical fiction, but I'm happy I took a chance to read it.  I'll definitely follow up once I finish reading the book.

2. I was so excited when Kate McLeod's Valentine's Day collection was announced. After being a bit disappointed that the Winter Rituals mini body stone set was sold out, I made sure to order the latest seasonal body stone. I ended up ordering the Sweet Blossom lotion bar, and oh my goodness, it smells incredible! It goes on so smoothly, and my skin feels so soft. 

3.  Over the past few months, I've been especially mindful of the things I consume and mindful of my health and wellness. I've been wanting to try healthier food and drinks, and so far it's been going well. I randomly stumbled upon RYZE on Instagram, and I usually ignore ads, especially if it's a product sold only online. I prefer shopping in-store, especially for new-to-me products, but for some reason, RYZE caught my attention. After a few weeks of seeing RYZE ads and hearing friends recommend this coffee, I found out it is now sold at Target stores. I decided to take the plunge and try it. It's been a little over two weeks since John and I bought RYZE coffee, and I've been loving it! I never thought I'd love a mushroom coffee, but this is surprisingly delicious. I've tried the Medium roast coffee and the vanilla latte sticks. They are both delicious. I make it with milk and add a little bit of creamer.

4. Have you watched His & Hers? This mystery thriller follows estranged spouses, Anna, a news reporter, and Detective Jack Harper, as they try to solve a murder. I'm currently on the third episode, and so far, this limited series is so good. This is definitely a show that you need to sit and watch with no distractions, like your phone. However, I don't think that will be hard because the show will keep you hooked.

5. After decluttering my closet, I realized I needed to update my wardrobe. I was on the hunt for a couple of business casual pants and found some amazing ones at Old Navy. I bought their High-Waisted Billie Straight Ankle Trousers in black and grey melange. I plan to get another one in navy. I love that these can be worn for work or casual outings. They are so soft and fit well. They're on sale right now, so if you're on the hunt for business-casual pants, definitely check these out.

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10 Things That Made Me Happy This Week

Happy Friday! This was a strange and busy week. However, I still made a point of remembering the things that made me happy this week. It's always a joy to remember the good. 

1. I was summoned for jury duty and initially was annoyed. However, it wasn't that bad. It was actually an interesting day.

2. John and I had a day date and decided to get brunch at First Watch. I decided to try an item on their seasonal menu. I ended up ordering the B.E.C. and a Purple Haze juice. The meal was delicious.

3. "The great unplugging, the apocalypse of connectivity..." Danny Gregory

4. A song on repeat: Gypsy by Fleetwood Mac

5. Currently reading: Gold Flame by Lily Archer

6. This piece by Elle Luna 

7. Devouring: Strawberries and pineapples

8. I started working in my Project Life album and loved going through my Ali Edwards' Stories By The Month kits. I'll have to place an order for my photo prints soon. I think I may try to work on my journaling while I wait for the photos to arrive. Also, I'm on the hunt for a new printer that can print photos and documents at home. If you have any recommendations, please let me know.

9. New favorite snack/treat: Trader Joe's Rainbow's End Trail Mix Bar. 10/10 highly recommend.

10. The weekend is here, and it's a three-day weekend! I plan to stay warm and cozy, watch a new show, and read a good book. What about you?

What made you happy this week?

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If You and I Had Coffee

If you and I had coffee...

We'd meet at a new-to-us coffee shop that we've been wanting to try for a while. We'd order a warm drink since it's so cold outside, and we'll opt to stay indoors. We'd order a few pastries to pair with our drinks. And perhaps a couple of bowls of soup to enjoy at our homes.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I am so saddened by the state of the country. It's honestly just so exhausting. It seems like so many people have become desensitized, and it's so sad, awful, disappointing, and scary.  I read a beautiful tribute by Peter Moore to Renee Macklin Good and humanity. Also, please read this poem by Amanda Gorman.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I've been wintering and really ramping up on my self-care routine. I'm being mindful of the foods and drinks I'm consuming. I've been gravitating towards healthier snacks and coffee. I've also been trying to get more movement throughout my day. I'm currently working on limiting screen time. I was pleasantly surprised to see that it has decreased for the second week in a row.  

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I'm currently reading Held by Anne Michaels. This is the book club pick for Exhale, and so far I'm really enjoying it. I'm still reading How To Be Okay When Nothing Is Okay by Jenny Lawson, and it's also a good book. I have so many other books I received from NetGalley that I really need to finish reading. I'm hoping to finish reading a few books before I even think about reading a new one. But we'll see how that goes because there are quite a few books I'm so excited to read this year. But we'll see how that goes.

If you and I had coffee...

I'd tell you that I'm so glad we were able to catch up. So far, January has been a month. There have been some fantastic days, a few weird days, and a couple of difficult days. It's been a month of mixed emotions, a lot of reflecting on the past, and keeping hope alive for the future. I hope the rest of the month goes well for you. May you continue to take care of yourself. Here's to good days and cozy vibes. See you next month!

What would you tell me?

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